Borgata Atlantic City 9/26/09 - The Best Concert I Almost Didn't Go To
Only here can I say that I’m not a frequent concert-goer, because this was only concert 5 out of 6 planned for this tour. Hi, I’m Jasmine and I’m a David Cook Fan…
After a dry summer with no DC concerts I ended up with multiple seats at 2 shows on back to back weekends. I decided to ask my husband if he wanted to come to either York or AC, which would ease my guilt about flying out of town two weekends in a row. “Honey, would you rather go to a little state fair in York PA (someone told me they have great food), or would you rather go stay at a luxury hotel and casino in Atlantic City? Two seconds later I had my answer. It was after this that the Providence RI show was announced, and I had to buy tickets to that show because I could actually DRIVE there, in my OWN CAR. So now for the first time ever, I started to wonder if I was going to TOO MANY shows so close together that I would not appreciate them. I don’t know why, but I had bought the cancellation insurance on our flights to AC. I have never done that. I actually looked into whether or not I could cancel, and from what I read it sounded like I would have to be dead, or home lost in earthquake/fire/monsoon, or imprisoned before I could cancel. Since I didn’t plan on any of those options I accepted that I was going. And dammit I was going to have a good time!
One good thing about not going to “too many” concerts is that each one has stood out in some way as being unique. As the Declaration Tour is coming to a close, I have been reminiscing about the various performances I have been a part of, and how each was unique.
AMA pre-show – so close I could touch his boots; first time seeing the entire band! ; happy relaxed vibe, and total love from the 200 or so super fans; got to look into those eyes and speak to him, and made him crack up and laugh (nothing has ever topped that)
Niagra Falls - First full concert! Met my first DC fandom friend (Hi Cathryn!), who was awesome and got me 3rd row seats, which we vacated and ended up as close to the stage as they would let us; Hilarious beanie banter and ass-showing by Dave.
Northampton – This show was legendary for the setlist and the vibe. My first GA show, but I did not invest the time to get really close to the stage.
VA Beach – Great beach vacation with the family, with a huge DC concert to top it off. Good seats, good view, but not the most exciting of the first 3.
Of the final 3 concerts I had planned, each one was going to be a different type and size of venue, which I welcomed. You already know why the York Fair ended up special. I decided if I was going to do GA at Borgata then I was going to do whatever I needed to do to get up close. This would be my last chance. I am feeling like a newbie at this, and I don’t know all the cool kids who go to a lot of concerts and know how to play the game. That’s ok though, because I am among a fraternity of sorts, and we are all here in the name of DCaTA. JuneBelle says she is doing GA too, and wants to hang out with me. Now JuneBell is a self-described lurker, and truthfully, her name is only vaguely familiar. But hey, we are part of the Cook Fandome and I welcome someone to hang out with. She turns out to be a wonderful companion (and I learn that lurkers are not necessarily lurkers because they don’t have anything to say), and we managed to get our wristbands with the first group, and then lined up when the security guards allowed us to. (Now there was a whole hilarious process around this too, that I have a feeling the cool kids know how to manipulate, because even though we were RIGHT THERE, we ended up #54 and #56).
Now I have to say, this was probably the most cushy of GA waiting situations ever. No scorching heat or thunderstorms, no hunger or thirst. We were indoors, able to sit on the carpet, and had a luxury bathroom right there. We also had numbered wristbands so we could leave the line, go get something to eat, and still be back in time for going inside. I wanted to meet as many other DWoPers there, since I might not have another chance for a long time. Gueseppe was game, and she hung out with us for awhile. I only wish I had put more effort into scheming how she could have been wristband #55. See, the security guard must have gotten distracted and he marked me #54 and JuneBelle #56. We only needed her to go get a wristband and find a sharpie pen, and then she could be #55! But sadly, when she went downstairs they were not giving out any more wristbands and she was then banned from coming upstairs. I felt even worse after reading her recap! Next time, gueseppe. We also literally tracked down FoolsApril64 by walking the line calling out “Lisa?” Poor thing wasn’t sure she wanted to answer, but it was so nice to actually meet and thank her for all her work.
So they finally let us in, and there I was, second row between David and Neal, right behind John Salow and the other “cool kids”. I recognize a few faces but don’t know all the names. It is strange and exciting knowing I will get to see these guys perform literally right before my eyes! JuneBelle and I both just give eachother silly grins now and then and wait patiently. The crowd was really great. Not too pushy or loud or crowded, but very well -behaved and all excited about the show. The reserved seating folks start to fill in, and my husband and son call me and wave down to us. My son, the snarker in training gets on the phone and says “How is it down in the Cougar Den?” Ok, no more SNL for him.
Tonic was actually very good, and it was fun to watch them interact with eachother onstage. Other than the lead guitarist, who seemed be enjoying the attention of the audience (not only a great guitarist, he was very good looking, and I imagine the girls on his side let him know they noticed - yes, that was Kitunen’s side ), there was not much of a connection until the lead singer asked us to sing their one hit song, and he even got down on the floor to get close. It was a nice gesture, and I wish I had known all the lyrics!
DC and the Anthemics are on! From the very first few lines of Heroes, I am struck by the energy and power from David. I have seen him open with this several times, ok not so close, but something is different. Oh yeah – no guitar! And he is instead throwing his body into the song in other ways. I knew this was gonna be good! Next is Mr. S, IDIFY and WOHWWS – each of them just all out crazy. Now that I have experienced being right there under them when they come to the front of the stage on IDIFY, well I have no desire to see it from afar, that’s all.
The entire show for me (for you) was a perfect combination of sweaty passion ( a lot of this), sweet soft moments, overall band tightness and comraderie, and Dave’s spontaneous humor. The guy yelling “yea-ahh!” in pleasure when Dave said he wanted to say something else, and Dave responding to this was a perfect example of him tuning into each audience and making sure he connects with them. I love this about him! I have rarely seen any performer actually try to talk with an audience, but David does it almost every single show. David had done the audience sing-a-long for both verses of CBTM at York, so I was not surprised. The audience seemed to eat it up (even though I, after all this, still didn’t know all the words). He sings along and acknowledges the audience, which I am sure makes people feel a connection. The ending with the young girl coming on stage for ADAM was mostly out of my view, but still sweet to watch. I actually met her at a restaurant after the show, and I think both her and her Mom were just overwhelmed. We also met up with SybilT and LM – so great to actually meet someone you have been reading/talking to for months. And JuneBelle is an original TWoPer so she really has some history with both Sybil and gueseppe. It was funny to hear some of the old TWOP stories. Meeting all of these people was really one of the highlights of the weekend, second only to David in my face for an hour.
I have to comment on some of my observations being up front for the first time. The front row is full of people who have been to 20-30 shows or more I figure. You can tell, because there is a nonchalance of ho hum, another concert. There is some chatting but not visible excitement. I was very interested in this, as I was in a totally different sphere of reality. Also, I had been wondering if I would ever get bored at a DC concert, and at what point could that happen. I wondered where these folks were in this spectrum, and what drove them to go to so many concerts. During the show, there was a relaxed enjoyment vibe from most of the front row, which was a contrast to the jumping screaming vibe from second row and beyond. Interesting to see, but not surprising. I imagine I will always be one of those jumping screaming idiots as I go to my 25th DC concert on their 5th tour.
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Comments for this Blog post
I was about 2 people behind you
I spotted you and waved but you didn't see me, then Tonic came on and I gave up.
Glad to hear you had such a great time.
I got front from in Charlottesville in a few weeks so we will see how I react. I may just pass out and miss the whole darn show.
I'm so glad you had a great time!
I'm so glad you got to experience DCaTA up close - there's nothing like it! And you got to hang out with lots of folks from DCO - now I'm officially jealous! Some day we'll get to hang out at a concert together! I've never been in the front row - got pushed out of the way by the front-rowers, but even 4 rows back at W&M, I was able to take in all the facial expressions, and general awesomeness from David and Neal. Amazing! I've been to 3 shows so far and have another coming up in 2 weeks, but the excitement has never dulled for me (even though people outside the fandome think it should). Each venue is completely different and I've had the opportunity to see it through the eyes of different friends - in various stages of Cookification. My friend that is coming to the Richmond show says that Permanent is her favorite song on DCTR - she may be in for a shock, although I warned her it is a ROCK show. I'm shooting for somewhere near the sound board (thx to suggestions from DCO'ers) so I can hear in acoustic perfection this time! Thanks for your recap! Cheers!
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You teach me to rise up, to open my eyes up... All these heroes come and go... you're still standing...
Sounds Fun!
I wish I could have been there with you, it sounds like you had a great time.
I am creeping up on my 10th concert (crazytime!) and I still get incredibly excited for each one.
The energy that is shared is so joyful and exciting. I find each concert to be different in some way and there are always new things for each performance. I don't know about going to 20 or more, that might be too much, especially the logistics of getting there and all.
I have observed some of the 'every concert' groupies too and find it a bit confusing, especially when they start complaining about the crazy schedule and I just think to myself, Why not take a day or two off? Upon consideration I think I would enjoy a concert every 5 or 6 weeks, especially if new songs were added along the way.
Clarification
I didn't mean to say that I know what the front-rowers are feeling or experiencing, or that they were bored. I actually think they LOVE this BAND, and that is why they put the effort into going to so many concerts. I commented on it because I am interested in what the concert experience is for them now.. I think I would not want to go to so many concerts that I didn't spontaneously want to jump up and down. Oh, and JuneBelle thanks for reminding me of that! New Shirt was and excellent choice too.
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Love is gathering...
uberfans
Why continue going and getting there so early that you can be sure to be in the front row?
I get the feeling for the folks who are the hardcore front rowers, it's more of a peer thing--always being in front of the line, making sure you beat out other folks and grab "your spot." I was in a beer line with a group of them at one gig and they seemed mostly obsessed with talking loudly about the band on a first name basis in a weirdly possessive way, striving to appear full of in-knowledge and outdo each other in bossy cowness. . . they kind of reminded me of the female version of Comic Book Guy on the Simpsons . . . or that one big girl in eighth grade who would fly into a rage whenever someone insulted whatever celebrity was pinned up in her locker.
Crept faaaar away.
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kaydeecee
The Best Concert Thankfully You Went To!
I'm so glad you were able to be up close and personal because it really does make for an excellent concert experience. Being close enough to see Dave's facial expressions and see a lot of the subtleties of the performance that is missed from farther back adds that extra layer of detail that makes the experience even more memorable. I think that no matter how few or how many concerts you go to the important thing is that they are still fun and exciting and there's that anticipation and expectation leading up to it and then the total exhilaration of being there. I'm kind of sad for that first row if they've lost the thrill and excitement. Can't imagine that ever happening. I really enjoyed hanging out with both you and JuneBelle (I'm so glad you called out our "talkative" little lurker. I thought it was just me!) and really hope to cross paths again some day.
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The now defunked StockTV. Oh, where I've been sold and spun again.
Thanks, nice recap!
I've been to four shows. Two GA , Northampton & Nokia and two casinos Niagara & Foxwoods.
Each one was unique and exciting and it's hard to say which was my favorite. The GA shows take a lot of stamina just to get in the door, but the chance to experience David and the Anthemic up close is soooo worth it. I have one more GA show next week and I can't wait!
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I'll keep on living with my heart on my sleeve
'cause I've seen love, and I still believe,,,,,,,,,,,, "Still"
Yes, it was fun doing GA and the Borgata day with you!
Jasmine - you missed one of my best memories of the concert. As soon as the lights shown on DC, said the exact same thing to each other - NEW SHIRT!!
Great day!
Great review
I have only been to six shows none in the front row. I was row 4 Yakima row 2 San Diego fair and the middle of a milling pack of fans in Seattle which was the very best of shows. The other 3 I had good seats but not in front. I guess it is not that important to me. But I enjoyed each show they were all so different and unique. I am glad you had such a good time and for myself I never want David to become ho-hum.
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Now we are looking back, through wasted photographs
Blank pages filling up our past.......Souvenir
sky1234
The front row
I don't get it. If the concerts have become ho-hum, why continue going? Why continue going and getting there so early that you can be sure to be in the front row? I mean, I love David and all, but I could understand that even he couldn't keep things new after 20 or 30 shows.
But then again, I've *only* been to six shows (four Dec Tour shows, two HRC NYC shows) total. Not in crazy land, much less ho-hum land. BTW, we were in the back reserved seating, and even though we weren't standing (conforming to back reserved seating decorum), we were excited!
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Platinum? A round of Bacon Martinis, on me.