Meeting David
My certification to practice law came in the mail today. It was dated October 22, 2008. So that means that as of three days ago, I'm officially a lawyer. Finally. I typed-out the text of the certificate in my daily blog, and afterwards I said (or in this case, typed) "I'm a lawyer" for the first time ever. I had tears in my eyes as I typed it out. Luckily no one was in the room to see it. lol
But on to the main subject of this blog: Meeting David.
Unfortunately, I've never met him. As you all know, I was at the Glendale concert, and jobing.com arena is a *horrible* arena for meet and greets. The buses transporting the performers actually go underground...and the only way the performers can do a meet and greet is to either (a) climb up a ramp, or (b) actually get in a car and have someone drive them back to ground level (which is what Adam Clayton did in 2005 before the U2 concert, God bless him). Fans hoping for a meet-and-greet end up having to stare down into a pit of sorts in order to catch a glimpse of the performers exiting their buses. It's bizarre. So unless I manage to see David at a venue other than jobing.com arena, my chances of meeting him are almost zero.
There has been a lot of chit-chat over at Yes.com today, and some of it has been about meeting David. People have had various experiences meeting him. Some said he was in a great mood, some said he seemed tired. Some got great pics with him, some said they got not-so-great pics with him. Some got hugs and a chance to talk, some got no more than a quick autograph (because he was in a rush).
I'm a very pessimistic person...and thus, I can't help but think that if I *did* have the chance to meet David, my experience would be one of the worst-case scenario ones: Tired David, not-so-great pictures, and nothing but a quick autograph. But of course, a meeting like that is better than no meeting at all.
Or is it?
And therein lies my dilemma. Take advantage of the opportunity to meet David if and when it arises...and risk it being what I consider a "not-so-great" meeting, or refuse to take the risk and go the rest of my life never meeting him. I've heard so many great stories about David's interactions with his fans...but I can't help but think that I'd never be lucky enough to be the recipient of such an interaction. Instead, I'd get the "not-so-great" experience, and go the rest of my life bummed about how it turned-out. I'd rather be bummed because I never met him at all, than bummed because my meeting with him wasn't all that I had hoped-for.
And for that reason, I see myself going with the latter option, and simply not bothering to try to meet him at all.
I'm open to being talked-out of that decision, though...so feel free to attempt to do so 
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Definitely go for it!
OK, so somehow I wandered into your blog this afternoon, only a month and a few days after your post. I always see your signature with Andy and enjoy reading your comments. I got to meet both Andy and David in Tulsa (a few days after I was in Tucson, AZ, on business) in September. And I'm also a lawyer, so I guess it's inevitable that I weirdly found my way here today.
First, congratulations on becoming a lawyer!! That's fantastic. I realized soon after I finished law school and passed the bar that it wasn't for me. I practiced for a couple of years, though, and then went into journalism (my undergrad degree and true love). And I've never regretted getting my law degree; I use it every single day. Anyway, it's a huge accomplishment and congratulations to you!! I really hope you are enjoying it!
Second, you should definitely go for it and try to meet David when you have the chance. I went to the meet and greet at the buses in the afternoon on the last day of the AI tour in Tulsa. It was absolute pandemonium, in the middle of Hurricane Ike (well, at least heavy rain and wind; the hurricane didn't exactly reach Tulsa directly), with what seemed like 1,500 people crammed against the barricades. So I am one person back from the barrier, but people were pushing and he had so little time with the crowd. I couldn't even get a quick autograph, but I saw him from a couple of feet away and that alone was worth it, even though I will admit to being a little bit bummed that it wasn't more. My friend got his autograph for me. She's a lot taller. And we were lucky enough to have snagged seats in the second row, Mavid side, and the concert was epic. Then, by some incredible stroke(s) of blind luck, I got a guitar pick and a pass to the after party from someone who wasn't going to use it who was heading out of the arena. I was the last person let into the after party. And I got to meet Dave and chat with him for a few minutes one-on-one (not that I could put together too much of a coherent conversation). And he gave me a hug at the end (I didn't even have to ask!). So it was incredible. So worth it, and you should definitely go for it. And we got to meet and talk with Andy Skib in between sets the night before at his show.
I envy the people David actually talked to ... or took pics with ... or even made eye contact with
"Tired David, not-so-great pictures, and nothing but a quick autograph."
Yep, that's what I got, but it beats nothing I suppose.
"Shattered in Charlotte"
OMG!!!! WHY NOT?
hahaha!! I would love it!!! yes, I have one. You can take my number before you leave to meet him.
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**Marium**
<3 the expression, priceless.
I heart David!
"Nothing ventured, nothing gained"
Like you, I'm also one who usually has the unusual or negative experience, It's a fault of mine, planning for it too much or expecting too much from it, whatever it is. LOL! When I leave it to chance or let the events be a surprise, those are the best times I have and they make the best memories.
In my opinion, you should go for a meet and greet with DC, just let the events flow and unfold as they will, DC never seems to be rude, just tired, in a hurry or has things on his mind, it's human and forgivable, right? The experience will at least be a memory, a good one or a disappointing one, but a memory, instead of a what if!
Congrats
Congratulations on your accomplishment!
Good point!
You guys both make a great point. I'd be lucky to even have the *opportunity* to speak to him...and it would be stupid to not take advantage of it when there are others who would love to be in my position. Thanks for helping me put things in perspective.
Marium, I don't know about recording...but maybe I could get him to call your cell phone (if you have one) and leave a message. He seems to be OK with doing that
I'm 25, btw...
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"If I could have a super power, I'd like the ability to...fly...so I can, you know?...soar...with...the birds."
You Remind me my son!
When I was reading your post, I remembered my second son (22 years old), he's a law student. He's realistic and grounded. Maybe a little bit like you... And he's a joker... He's always having the time of his life, never expecting to...
Reading Marium's post, I thought about myself. I'm a 48 year old woman, with 4 kids, living in the middle of Mexico... I just can't go running all over the country following a rock star!!!
You can!!!
If it doesn't work one time, WT* , try it again... I know this has happened in your life before. Don't give up! Your chances are better than ours!!!
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die-for-david ***Martha
lol
first of all Congrats on being a lawyer.
"You're a Lawyer"
lol
that is so cool. how old are you?
A person like me is probably never ever going to meet David. I am so sure. and If I had those 30 sec with him even if he wasn't in the best mood.. I wouldn't mind the 'not-so-great' experience. I'd give anything for that.
and besides what are you going to tell your children?? . . David Cook was right in front of me but I refused to meet him because I was afraid of the 'not-so-great' experience. hmmm? I know how you could grab his attention. record the meet n greet session and tell him a girl in Pakistan is anxiously waiting to watch it. and you could ask him to say hi and all. lol and tell him Pakistan is a country next to Afghanistan and India just in case he asks... although he such a nerd.. he'd know.
i hope it sounds convincing.
I am pretty sure the day you meet him will be your luckiest day and he'll chit-chat with you like you're his best buddy.
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**Marium**
<3 the expression, priceless.
I heart David!